Life is full of decisions, and many times we make the wrong one. It's how we get through the problem is what proves who we are.
I forget the title of the book. A family from S.A. build a tri in the highlands, and gets it to the sea. They sail to Australia for hopefully a better life. They took granny who was near 80, and her famous phrase was,
AND THIS TOO SHALL PASS.

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